How long do we have to fight to be accepted in mainstream cultures? Is it worth our lifetime and effort to keep working in this direction? My personal answer is no.
That may sound very negative, arrogant and ignorant, but that is the reflection of those who send out these impulses to others.
Here comes the story of the last few days which caused me much excitement in a not very positive way.
A couple of people tried to ‘heal’ me with various spiritual methods, others tried to convince me that a special workshop organized by the state was the best solution for my career, but none of these people asked me about my wishes and ideas for my future.
Well, we’re all kind of crazy and fanatical about different things, but I think it’s quite annoying for people when others try to convince them to share someone else’s opinion and go along with it. It’s like one person would rather listen to Bach and the other prefers the Rolling Stones. What’s the difference? The difference lies in individual taste.
I really hope some can read this and rethink their behaviour. Please don’t expect others to love the activities you choose, and if they say no, that means no.
I think I will also work in this direction to improve my behaviour and think about what I am writing right now, because I can also be annoying from time to time.
At least I don’t convince my friends to attend spiritual dance circles and healing workshops, at least when the person in front of me politely says, ‘Thanks, but it’s not my cup of tea’. These kinds of spiritual workshops usually cost a lot of money and in my opinion, a good thing that is supposed to ‘heal the sick world’ should be free of charge or you pay what you want/can.
You wanna be ‘healed’? Go out, walk in the nature, breathe, go in for sports or just have a cup of coffee or tea while you listen to your favourite music. Talking to a good friend can be healing, eating the favourite candy can be healing too, telling others what you think in a direct way without fear and hiding your emotions can also be your healing.
Now I’m trying to take it all with humour, but Saturday was quite a tough day for me and the bad energy has haunted me during the whole weekend. I’m going to let it go, like many other useless things around me 😛
Kick ass and stay healthy
Peace

©Margarita Zakaryan